May13
I wanted to talk about this for so long , CONTROL.. How Much control is okay ??!!
Let me explain what i mean by control ..
When you’re living with your parents , you kinda have to do whatever they want , you can’t think , you can’t have a different opinion , you can’t want something different , even if you are old enough ( or lets say mature enoght coz age doesn’t matter )
, then if you are a girl , you get to get married and move out and have you own life and you own house and ( you think that you would have your own rules) , and that’s simply not true
, especially if your husband is a E-male ( and by that i mean Eastern Male AKA: “ana ragel el beet wel kelma kelmety wel shora shorty”
.. “mesh meraty eli hatmasheeny” we kalam el aflam 3araby da ..
) .. so el point eno , when will i have my own life and i get to decide what i want with it
…And Further More , Eno Dayman El wa7ed Beysma3 el Kelma de “Tool Manty Fel Beet te3meli eli E7na 3ayezeno lama tetgawezi we yeb2a leki beet eb2i e3meli feeh eli enty 3ayzah ” , kaman e7na ma3odnash so’3ayareen ya3ny el mafrod neb2a in control of our lives aktar men keda , ya3ny @ least yeb2a fe 7agat keda beta3ety ana , ma7adesh loh el 7a2 eno yeda5al fe kararay w my choices , even if it sucks , yerga3o we ye2olo “eli beysheel erba ma5roma bet5or 3ala dema’3o” , so what seboha to5or , ana mosh fahma leah dayman el parents yekono mosh 3ayzenak the te3mel the same mistake they did , ye2ololak el 7aga de ‘3alat aw a5ret-ha we7sha , e7na garabna we3erefna , actually that’s how they got all that experience they have , so if we don’t try .. how will we get it ?? sa3at beygeely el e7sas eni 3ayza a2ol , de 7aga to5oseny ana bas , ana lewa7dy .. mesh el mafrod enoko teda5alo feha ??? hay2ololak ezzay ya3ny , e7na ahlak , w kol eli ye5osak ye5osena , i think eno that’s not true , fe 7agat ah men 7a2ohom yeda5alo feha , laken fe 7agat la2 , el mafrod yego 3andaha we ye STOP, we ye2olo enta 7orr bas e7na shayfeen kza , we yetwa2aaf dorhom 3and el nos7 , wenta 7or fe 7ayataaak ?? wallaa eah .. like you work decisions masalan , like you marragie (once you picked the right person 5alas ba2a mesh kol 7aga benko teb2a 7adotet el mosem) , few 7agat tebe2a to5sosak enta , enta w bas , mesh 3arfa leah el nas bet3reber eno once we are family yeb2a eli ye5osaak ye5osena kollena , ana masalan law rabbena a7yany w ba2a leyya awlad , hayeb2a fe guidance men ne7yety aked we kol 7aga , bas still mosh ha’3sebhom 3ala 7aga , we hayeb2a fe 7ewar we netkalem we netfahem , we law maktana3ossh be weghet nazary , wala 3erefo yekne3ony be weghet nazarhom , yeb2a yegarabo we yet3alemo homma , unless its fatal ya3ny , law fehom 3ayez ye do drugs walla 7aga .. 3arfa 3eyaly hayetla3o 7ashasheen
, sa3et-ha ana ageenlohom be se3r kowayes 7atta mayeda7kash 3alehom, walla eah
?? lazem asa3ed welady be5ebrety
just kidding tab3an , bas ana 3ayza a2ol , eno mosh kol 7aga fe 7ayat el ebn aw el bent , teb2a by default te5os their parents , we eno lazem yeb2a @ certain age keda, fe some privacy , some freedom ,some room yet7arako feha (ya3ny adelo mesa7too), 3ashn mayb2ash ana barabyy copies of ME , we i’m sure eno law ana merabeya welady sa7 men w homa so’3ayareen hab2a metamena lama yewsalo lel age de , we hab2a sure enohom hayetsarafoo sa7 , mesh shart yeb2o ta7t 3aneyya all the time .. Walla ento ra2yeko eah?? ..